No matter who you are, what your background is, how much you have accomplished or not accomplished, everyone goes through this emotion, “I am not good enough.” Someone might come across as a very successful and confident person from outside, but what i know for sure is that everyone has this thought from time to time.
After coaching many people of all genders and age groups..i can say this for sure.
I also come across as a very confident and a strong lady for many people. But the truth is, whenever i am about to embark on a new venture… my inner demon will whisper promptly, “you are not good enough for this. You have this problem and that problem and that.It happens while i am writing a new blog, a book, speaking in front of an audience or just making a video.”
The mind naturally starts focusing on my flaws and how i am inadequate.
But what helps me deal with this self sabotage is by not buying that. Along with your inner demon you also have your inner power. I gently divert my focus to that voice that tells me..”Of course you can do that. If that person can, so can you.” and once i focus on one strength of mine and hold tight to it, it creates a flow of positive self statements…it makes me feel better and confident about myself and helps me accomplish the task and also successfully.
That’s the difference between successful and unsuccessful people. Everyone gets the feeling of not being good enough,but the difference is the successful ones tries deliberately to focus on what they have, whereas the others get stuck on focusing on their flaws.
Another great way to overcome this feeling of not being good enough is by trusting in a power greater than yourself. When you believe that …”Yes by your own strength it is unlikely to accomplish that thing, but with the power that creates the universe you can accomplish anything.”
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